The Day I Got Sick of My own Excuses.

 I used to be a master of excuses.


- “I’ll do it tomorrow.”

- “I’m too tired.”

- “It’s not that urgent.”

- “I’ll start fresh on Monday.”


One day I looked in the mirror and said something real:


> “You’re not lazy — you’re just scared.  

> Scared of failing. Scared of being seen trying. Scared of growing.”


That truth hit hard.


I had to choose:  

Stay comfortable in lies or get uncomfortable in growth.


So I made a promise:  

**No more empty reasons. No more fake comfort.**


I started with one action:  

I opened my notebook and wrote what I was avoiding.


Then I did it — shaking, unsure, but proud.


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## 🌱 Progress Isn’t Loud


It didn’t feel magical. It felt small.  

But that small step saved me.


Every day, I remind myself:  

Excuses build regret.  

Action builds freedom.


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**✍️ Mr. Now Guy (Donlewis Nyairo)**  

*Real thoughts. Real struggle. Real progress.*


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